Lilin is an intimacy practitioner and bodyworker who weaves together over two decades of experience in community care, reproductive health, and trauma support. She is co-owner of the feminist sex-shop Come As You Are Co-operative and a senior student nearing professional certification with the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education. 

Lilin’s private practice is deeply rooted in her background as a former registered midwife, bringing seven years of combined training and clinical practice alongside fifteen years of supporting survivors of gender-based violence within social service agencies. She holds degrees from the Midwifery Education Program at Toronto Metropolitan University and the Assaulted Women’s & Children’s Counsellor Advocate Program formerly at George Brown College. 

Operating at the vital intersection of birth work and sex work, Lilin draws on the embodied wisdom of both lineages. Her trauma-informed practice is grounded in the foundational values of safety, agency, sacred sexuality, and joy. By integrating midwifery principles and somatic sex education, she offers client-led, pleasure-centred bodywork. Lilin is particularly passionate about scar tissue remediation, genital dearmouring, and providing somatic sex education for individuals navigating the postpartum period or recovering from gender-affirming surgeries.